The frying pan is found between the barn and a bale of hay at orchard farm but please remember this: The Frying Pan does have alot of damage, BUT if it is dug up without you having all the clues and following them the damage percent will be zero and therefore the Frying pan will be useless. Please listen to my advice if you want to kill things with a frying pan.

Also in the "Back yard" of the guild there will be a chest that requires 20 keys to open it. inside is a hammer stronger then a master longsword. try not to finish the game until you have it or it will be lost forever.